When that doesn’t happen, (and it cannot happen), they suffer. The lady or the man has invested in the belief that this person belongs only to them. “And it is the arrangement between a man and a woman that society has prescribed that is to be blamed for this, for it is an arrangement of ownership.” It happens once, then twice, until it becomes a habit. You imagine an ideal partner and want to be with them.” The thought or sight of your own spouse triggers a huge negative response in you. “Do you even know this ‘someone better’? They exist only in your imagination. “Meditation gives you the qualities of silence, awareness, a patient listening, a capacity to put yourself in the other’s position.”ĭissatisfaction with one’s partner leads to thoughts about having missed the boat with ‘someone better’. “Listen to your partner,” he advises and strongly recommends meditation for all. And this after 40 years of marriage, says Osho.
He tells of a particular twosome both of them claimed that the partner did not understand them. He has met and counselled innumerable couples. Osho has helped thousands steer a balanced course of life.
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